If you can't do it because his phone is locked then leave your phone at home and make up an excuse to have to use his when you are both out somewhere. Tinder is a great one to test because it matches within proximity. Women whom he says he went to school with are strangers that he has been talking dirty to It seems you already have your answer that something untoward is happening.Make a profile on some of the dating sites you suspect. If he is talking dirty to strangers online then he is up to something deceitful.If you suspect your signifigant other might be using a dating site or app, there are a few ways to confirm your suspicions, including through starting your own infidelity investigation.You'll need to check their phone for common dating apps, conduct a Google search using personal details like their email address, and, if necesary, create test accounts on popular apps and sites to see if your signifigant other is returned as a potential match.I am asking because I don’t know if this agreement is assumed on your part or if he explicitly said, “Yes, you and I are exclusive…” or, better yet, “I want to be exclusive with you.” I’ll explain why I bring that up in a moment, but at any rate I agree with you that checking his dating profile seems out of step with having an exclusive relationship with you…I also wouldn’t even classify this as snooping, per se. You didn’t somehow break into and read his emails or texts.Unfortunately, dating sites and apps can allow men and women to have secret interactions and flirtations and in some cases, entire relationships, without the risk of their husbands or girlfriends catching them in the act.Fortunately, these sites aren't as safe and anonymous as would be adulterers and cheaters would like to believe.
After finding love and a serious relationship some men still keep their online dating profile active.
You’re just seeing what he’s doing online and that information is freely available to the world.
Your motivations for checking up on this are worth looking at, though, because it gives me the feeling that either something inside you feels like you don’t quite trust this guy or that you don’t trust the relationship you’re in to have trust as a quality (and so you’re always checking and testing because you don’t have that trust to begin with…
I know I am being sneaky/snoopy by checking up on him to see how often her goes on the site (and he goes on often! It’s not like I’d call this guy my boyfriend already, I know it’s still early… Author’s note: I have expanded the content of this article since it’s original post (as I do from time to time).
This is thanks, in part, to your excellent comments and questions from the audience.